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Dealing With Difficult People In Life And At Work Topics included: Who are difficult people? How to deal with difficult people in life in general? How to identify & deal with difficult people at work? Tips for dealing with specific types of difficult people at work.   Who are difficult people? Who are difficult people? Difficult people are those who make our lives more challenging and stressful. They may be rude, demanding, negative, or simply difficult to get along with.   There are many different types of difficult people, but some common characteristics include: Aggressiveness : They may be verbally or even physically aggressive. Negativity : They are always complaining and criticizing. Manipulation : They try to control others and get what they want by using guilt, shame, or other manipulative tactics. Unreasonableness : They are unwilling to compromise or see things from another person's perspective. Self-centered...

How to handle difficult situations in your life?   Difficult situations comes in everyone’s life and that time life appears to be so hard to cope with. Everything seems to be out of your hands. But it is totally up to you how you handle those difficult situations. You are the one who can just let life happens by keep reacting to it or respond in a way where you convert those difficult situations into blessings.  In order to do that you have to learn and adapt the followings points given below:-   Try to calm yourself. Without a calm mind you can’t better anything and may even make those difficult situations worse so first calm yourself. If your mind is filled with all types of thoughts which may be unnecessary then you will not be able to listen to your inner self which is the best guide for you in these kind of challenging moments and with calm mind you will be able to take right decisions, at least the most suitable ones as per the circumstance...

Become selfish to learn Being selfish is considered a negative trait but when it comes to learning, it is positive as when you're selfish about learning new ideas, skills and gaining knowledge then it is a helpful and fruitful asset. The intention behind why you are trying to learn a certain thing is the most important. Being selfish is wrong when you have negative and consistent self-centered intention to learn. But if you first think selfishly to avoid distraction and concentrate better so that later on you will do good to people with the help of what you learnt then it is not wrong at all.   Similarly if a one thinks selfishly and first and foremost tries to be healthy and happy adapting healthy habits then only he/she can keep others around him/her happy and can take care of them also inspire them to become healthy. In one of my past jobs where I joined as fresher, I always use to try to learn from professionals, people who use to visit our office and even ones to...

This is a special article for me I have written to share what I learnt during my life till now. These lessons are results of my experiences which made me understand what is right for me and what I should avoid. I was writing a few of these thoughts in my daily journal and I thought why not share it with you all. You may relate or may not but if you do then share how you relate and what happened with you that you feel the same as me. I am all ears to you. I believe we should keep learning in life from everything and anything, people, circumstances and even objects. If it is good then it will be a blessing that we got to learn what we should do and if it is not then it's an even better blessing to have about what we must not be doing. So here it goes…   Write what you don't want to keep on thinking about or any thought which worries you in paragraphs without thinking. Bringing out all you have in your mind on paper helps you to clear your mind and reduces the str...