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Miracle of Growth Mindset. How Growth Mindset is better than Fixed Mindset: Which One Is Holding You Back?

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Miracle of Growth Mindset. How Growth Mindset is better than Fixed Mindset: Which One Is Holding You Back? Do you ever feel like you're stuck in a rut, unable to achieve your goals? You're not alone. Many people struggle with self-doubt, fear of failure, and a lack of motivation. But what if you could overcome these obstacles and unlock your full potential? The key lies in your mindset. The miracle of your Growth Mindset can help you become what you want to be and also make you free from the fixed Mindset of yourself and others that maybe holding you back.  What is a Mindset in simple practical words? A mindset is a set of beliefs that shape your thoughts, behaviors, and attitudes. It's like a lens through which you view challenges, failures, and successes. Your mindset determines how you respond to obstacles, feedback, and opportunities. Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset: What's the Difference? Psychologist Carol Dweck introduced the concepts of growth and ...

My learnt best ways to BECOME WISER.








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Reading contributes to your wisdom by stimulating your thoughts and also by increasing your power of imagination.

It is just like having a good friend to whom you can go to receive advice on topic about which you want to discuss and want opinion of that friend. This friend meanwhile discussing or telling you about the topic which interest you, tell you some new information about it and that’s how you learn more about it.



Your trustworthy reliable friends can’t be nearby all the time but these sources like books are always can be kept with yourself so that whenever you need them, you can pick them up and start reading to learn and to STAY WISE BEING ON THE RIGHT PATH DOING RIGHT THING. 


But one thing should be kept in mind and that is to stay vigilant about what you're feeding your mind whether you’re reading books or articles, make sure those are the right books or articles read as there is vast information available these days with so many authors publishing books and articles through offline and online medium as well, so select and decide what is right for you to read from and then learn from it.

 


Embrace interest and love for learning something new

It’s never enough to learn and you should keep learning in our entire life to grow, there is always something new for you to learn about.

 An artist who has been painting since last ten years still has different new ways to learn and practice to perform his art to the finest level and keep improving by learning the new techniques of painting which may take less time and effort.



But if the artist is not at all interested in learning something new then how he will learn and improve?... He cannot. Similar way we all also can’t learn and improve if we are not looking forward to get better at something. 

By loving the process of discovering something new and being open to learn it with full interest, we let our self to dive into knowledge which we are gaining and which leading us to become the better version of our selves.

 

Listen and Observe

Listen thoroughly and observe more to understand better. When you really pay attention and listen, you’ll feel like your mind connects with others on a completely different and higher level. It is like all the ideas and thoughts you have in your mind at that time, fits perfectly like pieces of puzzle getting together and getting solved on its own.


And by observing you can understand beyond words and sound. When we understand something well enough, we become aware of it better. Then it becomes easy to decide what is right and wrong without being judgmental.


 

Stay humble and be grateful.

People who achieve big goals in life, inspiring others and continue to do so with the help of their wisdom and experience always try to stay humble. They thank God, parents, Or their mentor and the universe for what they have achieved.

When you are grateful for what you have you get more of it, because then it means you appreciate what God has blessed you with and the universe blesses you more with it. Being humble makes you stay grounded and you don't take any wrong steps or actions to ruin your blessings and that's how you maintain it to have it with you.



For example, when people earn lot of money and become monetarily wealthy and start feeling proud of it and lose their Humbleness being arrogant than what happens is they start losing what they have and all the wealth slip over from their hands as they take everything for granted and treating others wrong who were with them when they were struggling to make financial success. So it's always good to be grateful for what you have and never forget where you came from to remember your journey.

 

Avoid self-boasting.

Please don't do self-boasting as it is really of no use. It will not do anything good to you rather it will create harm and may be secret enemies. Let others feel your value and appreciate you. You appreciate yourself by saying our writing positive sentences about yourselves. Keep it to you.



Self-boasting will also take right and valued people away from you as they may no longer enjoy your company. It will only attract selfish people having  vested interest towards you who will always try to feed your ego and misuse you to fulfill their desires and wants.

 

Avoid negative talks and Toxicity.

Negative talks create negative energy and staying with toxic people or being toxic you again lead to negativity which is good for nothing. It's always good to use positive words and sentences while talking even if you're talking about something which is not considered positive but still you can choose the right way to talk about it and that is in a positive manner.

For example, a tree in the garden has fallen down and so instead of saying "it's too bad the palm tree has fallen down" You can say "we can grow new plants and which will gradually grow into beautiful trees in the place of the tree which has flown down due to the storm".

So you see there is something positive in everything or every situation.

 

Be around wise people more.

The more you will stay around wise people, the more you will gain wisdom and it will make you more productive and positive in your day-to-day life. Being with them you will learn a bright version of something you were thinking about and gain new useful knowledge.



There presence will not only make you wiser but it will also provide you motivation to and clarity towards achievement of you goals, There opinion will let  you see all aspect of the situation or maybe a problem you are facing and hence, you will be able to face it better. 

The thoughts and personality of these wise people will also reflect on you that will help you think and understand like them. That's how will gain more wisdom and become wiser in life.




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